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    How to make sure you’re not stalked on Facebook

    We pour our lives into Facebook, checking in whenever we stop somewhere new, posting photos of family and friends, and giving away all manner of personal information. It's gold dust for identity thieves, and an easy way for bosses and exes to keep an eye on what you're up to. Fortunately, it's easy to limit your profile's contents and restrict who can read it... so long as you know where to look.

    Blocking other users

    You can block specific members from viewing your profile by adding them to a blacklist.

    1. Click Account | Privacy Settings and then, in the Block lists section, click Edit your lists.

    2. Enter a name or email address for the user you want to block. Facebook displays a list of matches with Block buttons beside each one. Click the appropriate button, followed by Close. This is pretty heavy-handed and far from perfect, as it leaves your profile full of personal information.

    Filter your public profile

    Before locking down your profile, check how it looks to other Facebook members.

    1. Click Account | View settings | Preview my Profile. Whatever appears on the next screen is public property. Make a note of what you want to remove, then click Back to Privacy settings.

    2. Facebook's recommended settings are tiered. Your status, photos, posts, family details and biography are open to all. Friends of friends can see tagged photos, political or religious views and your birthday, while your friends can comment on your posts and see where you’ve checked in. Three presets in the ‘Sharing on Facebook’ section let you make more or less of your profile public, but for finer-grained control click Customise settings.

    3. Facebook splits your profile into sections. Use the menus beside each one to choose who can see each part (Everyone, Friends of Friends, or Friends only).

    4. To hide some sections from specific users, pick Customise and enter the names of the people from whom you want to hide that data.

    Controlling your public profile

    A large part of your profile is material posted by other people. They can tag you in their photos, write on your wall and comment on your posts. To retain control of your public image, you need to restrict what others post about you.

    1. Under Privacy settings select Customise settings and then scroll down to 'Things others share' and set who can see ‘photos or videos I'm tagged in' to 'Only me', and set permission to comment on your posts to friends only.

    2. Uncheck the box allowing friends to post on your wall, and use the Edit settings buttons beside 'suggest photos of me to friends' and 'friends can check me in to places' to stop them tagging you in images and publishing your physical location.

    3. Return to the top of the page and click Preview my Profile again. If you're happy with the stripped-down results, click Back to privacy settings.

    Limiting apps

    Some of your information is made public by Facebook apps and games, and by third-party websites that use Facebook logins. Rather than disabling all apps, simply limit the information they can publish.

    1. Scroll to the bottom of privacy settings and, under Apps and websites, click Edit your settings. On the following page, click Edit settings in the Information accessible through your friends section.

    2. The box that pops up breaks out your profile sections again, here covering not only your details, but also whether you're online and where you've checked in. Uncheck anything you want to keep private, then click Save Changes.

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    Any apps you haven't used for a long time should be removed from your account, as they can still access your data and updates.

    1. Scroll up to Apps you use and click Edit settings.

    2. Click the 'x' beside each app you want to remove or, for more information about what data it can access, click Edit settings.

    Hide yourself from search engines

    Finally, to stop your Facebook profile appearing in search engines' listings, go to the Apps and websites section of your Privacy settings. Hit Edit settings next to the Public search button and ensure Enable public search is unchecked.

     
     
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    161 comments

    • Army Old Sweat  •  Skegness, England  •  3 months ago
      Approaching 80 I don't need Facebook and have packed up stalking. Stood in the Post Office the other day queuing for my pension standing behind a little old lady nearly 90. Tapping her gently on the shoulder I said, "Excuse me madam, you've got a stalker." Quick as a flash she whipped round, grabbing hold and gave me the biggest wet kiss imaginable! I've had enough of both.
    • Donna  •  10 months ago
      To avoid unwanted attention, girls could stop using 'slaggy' pics of themselves, dressed half naked.
      • Frances 10 months ago
        i agree then fone the police on people in areas they dont belong in and also lie about ages when ge caught by their parents tell fibs on housbound people who dont know of them and housebound and disabled it called chracter assisnation
      • JEMc 10 months ago
        Xsapphirex I agree, you get 14 year olds putting their ages as over 16 or 18 and profile pictures of them dressed up like cheap call girls. There should be greater restriction of content from Facebook itself - checks on ages, for example, and moderation of profile pictures. I'm all for girls having freedom to express themselves but a lot of these people don't know what they're implying or how it might come back on them.
      • Alice R 10 months ago
        Exactly. Girls I know posting pictures of themselves with just a bra on (the top half). They wouldn't walk around in public like that would they?
    • kingsley  •  8 months ago
      What ever the reason or reasons,the world is dynamic and the current face of human advancement has prompted for centralized information,thereby limiting information from not far fetch domains.However,face book as a medium has tremendously affected the lives of millions over the world.
    • Portsmouth Pete  •  10 months ago
      FACEBOOK: Filter your public profile.
      I do NOT know what FACEBOOK the person who wrote this article has joined, but it is TOTALLY different to mine!
      The instructions above are so incorrect, a blank page would have been just as useful!
      • blue 10 months ago
        Too right dude... I for one certainly do not have the button/link that says "Things Others Share" lol
      • JEMc 10 months ago
        Yeah - even the 'View Settings' option doesn't exist! Typical Yahoo news reporting...!
      • ranndell 10 months ago
        go to privacy settings and the view settings right infront of you highlighted in blue.... took me while to find it mind...
    • A Yahoo! User  •  10 months ago
      Don't join. Get your nicest jeans on, a nice top and some high heels (you can do this if youre a man too, but maybe a pair of next yeans and a smart t shirt would be appropriate) and GET YOURELF DOWN THE PUB Meet people, learn how to converse face to face, maybe have a little dance, make a date or just socialise. GET A BLOODY LIFE: Or get down the gym, the park with your dog, bloody anywhere but sitting at home gawping at the computer. FB will be dead and buried before you know it so get off now.
      • anon 10 months ago
        not everyone can do this dick head some people are house bound and would love to get out there and do day to day things
        if anyone wants fb twitter etc its up to them this article is @#$%
      • Josephanthony 10 months ago
        Hmm. The really funny ones, are the people who sit in the park/pub/gym, engrossed in FB on their mobiles! Like those women FB'ing pics of thier babies from the delivery-room, even before the midwife has handed it to them to hold.
        Ah well. The public wants, what the public gets. :P
      • JEMc 10 months ago
        Wow, maybe there should be an initiative to ensure that some people who are house bound have sufficient anger-management therapy to recognise that not all comments about people using social networking sites are aimed at them.
        Completely unnecessary insults.
    • Tanya  •  10 months ago
      Left facebook a long time ago, was tired of seeing people upload photos of themseles bragging and trying to prove to people that they have a good social life. It is a waste of time, and the majority of people who are on their are gossipers anyway!
      • Serverguy2011 10 months ago
        good idear getting rid of fb

        Plus its a load of cr** anyways

        has any one noticed in the fb center in the us or were ever it is
        all the staff are on fb talking to their friends

        wow thats real busy work their doing
        NOT!!

        you will find the people who work their have got no internet at home and they bring in people from outside to chat to their next door neighber pmsl
        SAD!
      • chris 10 months ago
        shut the whole thing down its tripe
      • Serverguy2011 10 months ago
        good idear getting rid of fb

        Plus its a load of cr** anyways

        has any one noticed in the fb center in the us or were ever it is
        all the staff are on fb talking to their friends

        wow thats real busy work their doing
        NOT!!

        you will find the people who work their have got no internet at home and they bring in people from outside to chat to their next door neighber pmsl
        SAD!
    • wai wai  •  10 months ago
      If you don't want the public to know you don't sign up face book. If you sign up please take the risk. Common sense. Face to face is still the best period.
    • Chris  •  10 months ago
      I'd welcome a facebook stalker...I feel so lonely!!!!!
    • Cordas  •  10 months ago
      I love stalking people on Facebook on a daily basis and posting status updates where I can moan about how unfair my pathetic life is, I also enjoy masterbating over pictures of women who I'm friendly with in reality, even if it happens to be one of my friend's sisters or even their mother.

      If only they knew I was tugging one out over them but they don't! *GRINS*
    • mark  •  10 months ago
      50o/o of facebook accounts are false gaming accounts so if facebook cant regulate it nobody can, when they ban an account for life for whatever reason they just simply open a new one ?
    • Millie_up_North  •  10 months ago
      Yes Saphire & men could occasionally pop their tops back on!
    • Skydiver  •  10 months ago
      Best way not to get stalked on Facebook is to not have Facebook.

      Besides, it's for social misfits anyway.

      Call me. ;-p
    • Alien Pal  •  10 months ago
      There you go, another set of cautious use for such and other website on downloading photos and chatting by sound or words in this way. We, humans are not getting closer to each other by doing this on earthly space. It does not make human sense and those website makes all the earthly monies with your private or company photos and your personal chit-chatting notes.

      Go back to using the conventional photo albums as it does bonds all human beings...chatting, eating, joking, drinking, showing the photos together ......before you think that high technologies keeps you updated. Think again as not all does. Do not be fooled by such initiatives.

      At times, it is better to use the conventional way that we would have less problems and more bonding..............that was shared by my dear friends from space.
    • the human race, what a di ...  •  10 months ago
      how about, stop thinking you are so important and think you have so many friends and close down your account and get a REAL life! People say its good for keeping in touch with friends and family thousands of miles away? hmm...well why dont you use good old skype and talk face to face?! Or messenger and share photos in REAL time...And what about the friends that live around the corner and you leave them messages instead of just calling or arranging to meet?! Its one screwed up concept, but i guess its exactly the same as not being able to get off our fat a***s and collect a pizza in person instead of having it delivered, or having the remote for the TV instead of getting up and changing the channel...what is happening to us as a human race?! well i'll tell you we are slowly being de-humanized, what we once took time out to do with thought and emotion has to be done here and now in not 10 minutes but 2 minutes, and all the the human thought, emotion and interaction with it has taken part of our identity away...talking of which no wonder why there is so much identity theft and stalking on Facebook....its a sign of the times we live in...de-humanized times!!
    • Cerys Howe  •  10 months ago
      The best way is to remove your profile, unfortunately that does not completely work. I left Facebook after about a nine month 'membership', reason was personal information being given to third parties by FB, complaints resulted with 'you joined, you accept what we do', I decoded to remove my profile. Having done that I have been told be a couple of friends, that photographs of myself are still being used by FB, as I am a friend of ******, to the extent of people I don't know. Facebook, leave it, it's dangerous and totally unsafe.
    • Aizat Hasnan  •  9 months ago
      Facebook always brings lots of problem... maybe someday they'll find the solution. The best way to avoid bad things happen to you is by knowing who you're friend with. Just like on real world, bad friends means 'a lots of trouble'....
    • TONY  •  9 months ago
      This info is wrong.
      1. Click Account | View settings | Preview my Profile. Whatever appears on the next screen is public property. Make a note of what you want to remove, then click Back to Privacy settings.
      You can't get to View settings by Clicking Account. This info is out of date or wrong.
    • lyn  •  9 months ago
      Don't care. This is not NEWS. News is the plural of NEW.
    • Phoebe  •  9 months ago
      When I started using FaceBook, I thought of it as a magazine. A sort of daily I could write short stories, articles, comments, contribute interesting or funny things I found on the internet, and others could do so, too. It was also a bit like a talk show, or having a group of people in your living room, all sharing their thoughts. Because it is my site, I act as editor removing anything I consider inappropriate. Others seem to take the view that people only sign up as predators and voyeurs into private lives they wouldn't otherwise know. It never occurred to me that some people might think of me as invading their privacy until someone pointed it out. However, a magazine format invites this, so what is the problem? You have to know that on a public forum, it's just that: PUBLIC. Write your own magazine! You are in control, then, of what is published, and who is publishing. Furthermore, you have control over who you select as friends. If they are strangers, it doesn't mean they are bad, you just haven't met yet. But I am selective, so everyone has to pass first.
    • H  •  9 months ago
      I got a landline, mobile for calls & txts, computer for emails, Skype and oh, a letterbox, remenber them? Who needs anything else?
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