The moral panic over egg-freezing and older parents is irrational

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‘I have been campaigning for the frozen egg storage timeframe to be extended – an arbitrary 10-year time limit on the storage of eggs is distressing for many women’  (Getty/iStock)
‘I have been campaigning for the frozen egg storage timeframe to be extended – an arbitrary 10-year time limit on the storage of eggs is distressing for many women’ (Getty/iStock)

The government has announced that the 10-year time limit on the storage of frozen eggs, sperm, and embryos is to be revised – allowing women, men, and couples in most circumstances to store their genetic material for as long as 55 years.

I have been campaigning for many years for the frozen egg storage timeframe to be extended so that it is in line with sperm and embryo storage timeframes. I welcome this parity, but I’ve noticed concerns that such a change in the law would lead to an increase in “geriatric mothers” pursuing pregnancy into their 50s or even 60s.

For more than a decade, I have been researching egg-freezing for social reasons – when a woman freezes her eggs not due to illness, but because she is not yet ready to have a child. I am confident that this change in the law will not mean vast numbers of women suddenly electing to have children for the first time in their sixth or seventh decade of life.

The typical user of egg-freezing is usually in her mid- to late 30s, she is nearly always single, and she has most often wanted to have a child for several years prior to freezing her eggs, but has not had a partner with whom to do so. In freezing their eggs, these women are hoping to allow themselves more time to find the right partner with whom to have a child. In many cases, this might be a few years, but for some it might be longer, and the presence of an arbitrary 10-year time limit on the storage of their eggs is distressing for many women.

As a mother myself, I can attest to the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy, birth, and – perhaps most crucially – toddlerhood; the women I spoke to in my research frequently explained that they didn’t want to be “old, old” mothers.

Instead, they sought to use egg-freezing technology to prevent them from panicking about their fertility and rushing into a relationship with a potentially unsuitable partner to avoid childlessness in the future. For these women, egg-freezing wasn’t about putting off motherhood for as long as possible, but about maintaining the possibility of shared genetic parenthood with a chosen partner as soon as practically viable.

As such, the moral panic about there being more geriatric parents because of a change in the law is nonsense – especially given that women have been able to access the eggs of younger women via egg donation for decades, and that very few fertility clinics in the UK will treat women over 50 anyway.

What is more worthy of our concern is how this legal change will affect the way egg-freezing is marketed to younger women, along with the implications of widening the pool of potential users of this technology. Prior to the law being changed, it would be rare to see a woman undergo the procedure before her 32nd birthday, as the eggs she stored would have to be used within a decade – that is, by the time she was 42. Once the law is changed, women could be freezing their eggs much younger for potential use several decades later.

The benefits of undergoing the process at a younger age include a greater chance (but no guarantee) of success using the frozen eggs in the future, needing fewer cycles of treatment to get enough eggs for storage, and being able to take a gentler approach to ovarian stimulation. However, it is important that egg-freezing isn’t aggressively marketed to younger women now that they are more eligible for the procedure, as – like all forms of fertility treatment – egg-freezing isn’t without risk, it’s invasive, and it’s very often painful, not to mention expensive.

Furthermore, while freezing eggs from younger women may be optimal biologically speaking, younger women are much less likely to need to use their eggs to conceive, as they have a greater chance of having a child naturally. As such, widespread egg-freezing for women in their 20s is not something I would want to see.

Instead of promoting invasive procedures, we should instead increase awareness of the realities of age-related fertility decline among men and women. We should be calling for affordable childcare, high-quality parental leave packages, and access to fertility treatment on the NHS if a person struggles to conceive. These options are much more desirable than the over-medicalisation of the bodies of young women who may not yet even know if they wish to become mothers.

Dr Kylie Baldwin is a senior lecturer with the Centre for Reproduction Research at De Montfort University, and author of ‘Egg Freezing, Fertility and Reproductive Choice: Negotiating Responsibility, Hope and Modern Motherhood’

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