'I uninvited daughters from wedding after hearing about their twisted plan'

He has banned his daughters from attending his wedding (stock)
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A man has sparked a debate after banning his daughters from attending his wedding after hearing about their spiteful plan.

He explained how he has four daughters - Olivia, 19, Christine, 17, Eliza, 15, and Aria, 12 - and says he divorced their mum six years ago due to difficulties in their relationship.

However, he is now set to marry his fiancee, Daniela, and hoped to have his daughters' support when she walks down the aisle. He revealed on Reddit: "Daniela is the sweetest woman I've ever met. She's kind, caring, and selfless. She loves my daughters a lot but my daughters at first did not accept her and it has caused so much tension.

"Quite frankly, the girls at the beginning were outright aggressive toward her. They openly disliked her and fought against her in many ways, including, saying offensive things to her, and vandalizing some of her stuff."

The man says he was considering ending his relationship with Daniela because he didn't want to jeopardise his relationship with his children - but he ended up staying with her as his children suddenly 'accepted her'.

He added: "Things had shifted and my daughters had a change of heart. They made a collective decision to mend their relationship with Daniela and they became really nice and respectful toward her. It was strange, let me tell you, especially when my youngest daughter, Aria started clinging to Daniela and spending most of the time with her.

"Notice that this change took place a couple of months ago. I immediately got engaged to Daniela and we decided to get married at the end of next month." Everything was going smoothly with the wedding arrangements until he received a message from his ex-wife informing him about their daughters' plan to spoil his big day."

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He continued: "I got a text message from my ex-wife telling me that the girls were planning to spill red wine on Daniela's wedding dress at the wedding. I was shocked. I asked how true this was and she said she heard them plan the whole thing. Moreover, my sister was in on it too, and agreed to help them. I asked if she had any idea why but she did not respond.

"I was furious, and also very disappointed not knowing how I could even tell Daniela about it when Daniela is currently helping them pick dresses for the wedding and helping them pay as well." Describing it as an "awful betrayal", he decided to ban his daughters from attending altogether."

Continuing his story, the man said: "I confronted the four of them and they denied it at first. Then, Eliza confessed but said it was intended as a "prank" and that it was Christine's idea. Christine yelled at her and denied her involvement entirely. The girls started yelling at each other and then began crying when I told them they were not allowed at the wedding.

"Olivia said that I'd be ruining their relationship with Daniela if I didn't let them attend on the most important day of her life. Christine promised they won't do it and suggested that I don't tell Daniela and just let them come to "preserve" the relationship and I decided to consider it." However, his ex-wife again messaged him to prewarn him, claiming their daughters were lying and still wanted to go ahead with their plan.

"I blew up and told them it was over and that they were banned from the wedding and that it was non negotiable. They tried to argue, deny, and beg but I refused to hear it. I was feeling so much anger and hurt." Wanting to know whether he's wrong to keep the ban in place, he has taken to social media to ask users for their thoughts."

In response, one user said: "You're not the a**hole for banning them. Trust is crucial, especially with something as important as a wedding. They planned something hurtful, and it’s your right to protect your future wife’s special day." While another user added: "If you invite them, ban red wine from the wedding. Stick to white." However, a third user asked: "Are we sure the ex-wife isn’t instigating this?"