Women not receiving NHS support after miscarriage, say campaigners

Too many women do not receive support for anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) after a miscarriage, according to campaigners, who are calling on the government to completely overhaul medical services to better accommodate those who have experienced pregnancy loss.

The charity Tommy’s said that despite one in four pregnancies ending in miscarriage, it remains poorly understood due to the absence of NHS data collection. Support on the NHS is also restricted to those who have experienced three consecutive miscarriages, despite the fact that many women experience lifelong physical and psychological consequences.

“We’re trying to bust the myths around miscarriage,” said Tommy’s chief executive, Jane Brewin. “One of these is that it’s a short-term thing rather than a long-term serious condition that doesn’t have an enduring impact on people.

“There are people who are psychologically really unwell who receive no interventions other than going to their GP, who won’t be able to refer them for support unless they’ve had three in a row. This really isn’t adequate.”

Tommy’s is urging the government to prominently feature investment in miscarriage prevention and treatment, as well as mental health support, in its women’s health strategy, which will be published later this year. Its research has estimated that miscarriages cost the NHS £430m annually, before factoring in broader costs to the economy, such as time off work.

Research by the charity showed that 20% of women who have had a miscarriage will go on to experience clinical PTSD, 16%-18% will suffer from anxiety and depression, and the risk of suicide is quadrupled.

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These symptoms may continue even when women have a subsequent healthy pregnancy, which some term a “rainbow baby” to reflect a positive outcome after a stormy experience. However, women and their partners report struggling to feel joyful about their new pregnancy, and worrying constantly that they will have another miscarriage.

The issue has gained public attention recently after media coverage of Carrie Johnson’s pregnancy, in which she was reported as saying she was hoping for a “rainbow baby”. In a private Instagram post she wrote: “At the beginning of the year, I had a miscarriage which left me heartbroken. I feel incredibly blessed to be pregnant again but I’ve also felt like a bag of nerves.”

Prof Siobhan Quenby, a researcher at Warwick University and chair of Tommy’s National Miscarriage Centre, said that societal attitudes must change to enable people who experience miscarriage to be properly supported, including the taboo around disclosing a pregnancy before 12 weeks, which may exacerbate anxiety.

“Society thinks if you only lost a baby after a couple of months it somehow didn’t exist and therefore you shouldn’t grieve and that doesn’t warrant support. This is completely untrue,” she said.

This was the experience of Gina Notarianni, who has had three miscarriages. “After the first miscarriage, the excitement gets sucked out of the pregnancy,” she said. “You never lose that void, just because you go on to have other children. I’m very lucky to have three healthy children, but it’s not a replacement. You’re always wondering about the ones you haven’t had.”

Ruth Bender Atik, the chief executive of the Miscarriage Association, said employers should educate themselves on the different ways that miscarriage bereavement presents, since it is complex and personal.

“You might have one employee who wants to come straight back and not talk about it. It might be because she doesn’t have deep feelings about the loss or because that structure gives her a sense of control. But you might also have someone who needs to take six weeks off because she’s gone into depression and is unable to concentrate,” she said.