Bereaved West Lothian mum forced to hire strimmer to tidy son's 'distressing' grave

A West Lothian mum was forced to take matters into her own hands after seeing the state of the graveyard where her son is buried.

Gwen Tilbury, 64, had to hire a strimmer to tackle the overgrown grass and weeds in Abernyte Churchyard in Perthshire. She slammed the awful overgrown grass and weeds as a “distressing sight”.

Gwen Tilbury was in disbelief when she visited the grave of her son Richard McCreadie who was 28-years-old when he was killed in a road traffic accident in 2009, reports the Record.

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Gwen, who stays in West Lothian, said: “We would dread our bereaved families being faced with this distressing sight.”

The bereaved mum decided to take matters into her own hands. She said: “I actually hired a petrol strimmer; it was that bad. It’s just absolutely shocking. I’d gone up about three weeks previously and it was bad, really bad.

“I’d gone up with a friend and he said ‘I’ve never seen anything like this for a graveyard. I did what I could to try and get in."

She added: “Even to be walking to the grave, you could be walking on other people’s gravestones because you can’t see anything.”

Perth and Kinross Council said grass had been left uncut in cemeteries due to staffing pressures but it is now seeking to resolve the issue.

A spokesperson for the council apologised for any upset caused to mourners and pledged to ensure cemeteries are maintained more regularly as intended.

Gwen, who is a funeral arranger, fears that the headstones may be damaged by the time the council teams eventually cut the grass. She says: “They’re going to damage the stones because they can’t even see where their machines are going because it’s so bad”.

She also worries visitors to Abernyte Cemetery could be injured tripping over a gravestone. She said: “There are people coming back and forward on a weekly basis. It’s health and safety.

“It’s just awful. You can’t see where you’re going at all.”

Perth and Kinross Council charges £1000 for a full adult lair and £1,043 for a burial. On top of that, families pay a considerable amount for a headstone.

Gwen said: “People paid a lot of money for that ground and the stones that are on it. There is absolutely no way that these stones will remain undamaged with this situation."

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She continues: “If you’re selling the ground for the price you’re selling it, and people are spending thousands on a stone, it needs to be protected.”

Due to staffing pressures, Perth and Kinross Council explained that it has been unable to do fortnightly grasscutting and monthly strimming at cemeteries as normal.

A spokesperson for Perth and Kinross Council said: “We apologise for any upset that mourners visiting council-maintained cemeteries may have felt.

“As we have advised, recent warmer, wetter weather conditions have led to additional growth of vegetation and together with current staffing pressures we have not been able to progress grass-cutting works as normal – which for cemeteries we maintain is scheduled as a fortnightly grass cutting and monthly strimming around headstones. We are working to resolve the situation at present to ensure cemeteries are maintained as intended.”

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