Jay Blades steps away from BBC series The Repair Shop after personal setbacks
The Repair Shop will continued without Jay Blades while he deals with challenges in his personal life.
Earlier this month, furniture restorer Blades, who is the face of the BBC series, made headlines after his wife Lisa Zbozen announced she was leaving him.
The news came shortly after Blades revealed his uncle Richard Brathwaite had been killed. In a post to his fans, Blades said Brathwaite’s death had “really affected” him and announced a break from social media – and told The Independent he was planning to see a counsellor.
This was corroborated in an Instagram post, in which the London-born TV host told his followers he was “going to go and get some therapy and just chill out”.
Blades’s spokesperson has told The Independent that this break has extended to his Repair Shop role following reports he had not shown up for filming this week.
A source told The Sun: “His uncle’s death in March and the breakdown of his marriage means he has decided to take some time out.”
Addressing his separation from his wife, the source added: “People who worked with Jay said they were shocked to hear that his marriage to Lisa had ended. It was not well known at all among the people who work on the show.”
In an interview with The Independent, Blades said The Repair Shop saved his life after he secured the presenting gig after an acute mental health crisis and an attempted suicide.
He said the show, which sees craftspeople from around the country restore family heirlooms that have sentimental value, is helping others show their emotions.
“Especially with men, we’ve created a culture where to show your vulnerability is to become a victim,” he said, stating: “I used to believe that when I was growing up in Hackney, that you had to be this tough guy, as I was growing up in a very tough environment.”
After highlighting the high suicide rate among British men, which is the leading cause of death among men under 50, Blades said: “Why is that? Because a lot of men are struggling with stuff and they don’t know how to express that.”
The Independent has contacted Blades and the BBC for comment.
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