21 need-to-know people who are best friends with the royals

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Life as a royal must be both brilliant and challenging in equal measure, making good friends a real essential. But who exactly are the people that make up Meghan Markle's inner circle, and who do Prince William and Kate Middleton have on speed dial? Here's a round-up of the royal family and their closest confidants over the years.

Who are Meghan Markle's best friends?

Jessica Mulroney

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The Canadian stylist became friends with Meghan when the pair met in Toronto, where Meghan lived while filming Suits, likely back in 2011. Jessica's daughter Ivy was a bridesmaid at Meghan and Harry's wedding and her twins, Brian and John, were pageboys too. In 2018, Jessica uploaded a quote to Instagram which read: "When someone faces unfair criticism, you call it out. When that person is your friend and your family, you call those critics what they truly are: shame on you, you racist bullies", which many took to be in reference to Meghan's treatment from some of the tabloids at the time.

Clearly, she's got Meghan's back through and through.

Serena Williams

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Tennis star Serena Williams is known to be one of the Duchess of Sussex's best friends, appearing on Meghan's Archetypes podcast and even throwing a decadent baby shower for Meghan when she fell pregnant with Archie. It's thought the pair first met back in 2010, before Meghan entered the royal circle, whilst at a Super Bowl game and bumped into one another again at another American football match in 2014.

Discussing that moment on her podcast, Meghan said: "I show up and I see you walking toward someone, I remember thinking, 'Oh my gosh, who is Serena Williams going to talk to?' I looked behind me and when I turned around, you were there right in front of me... We became such fast friends."

Lindsay Roth

Lindsay and Meghan met at Northwestern University School of Communication, which they both graduated from in 2003, and have remained close, with The Duchess of Sussex taking on the role of maid of honour at Lindsay's wedding in 2016. Meghan even arranged a surprise trip for Lindsay ahead of her wedding day, flying her out to Toronto for a private dress fitting. Speaking to the New York Times about the gesture, Lindsay said: "I felt like the most special bride."

She's been a vocal public supporter of Meghan on many other occasions too, notably when she posted about the cookbook Meghan wrote the foreword to in support of the victims of the tragic Grenfell Tower fire, writing: "Something about Meg that most people don’t know is that she’s always brought people and communities together through food. From helping at soup kitchens as a little girl to donating her time and food to shelters while living in Toronto. M, I’m so proud of you!"

Genevieve Hillis

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Genevieve Hillis (left), Meghan and Lindsay Roth (right), pictured at Wimbledon in 2019Laurence Griffiths - Getty Images

Like Lindsay, Genevieve met Meghan at university and the three quickly formed a tight trio – they were also all sorority sisters in the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. Here they are all pictured together having a good catch up at Wimbledon in 2019, a few months after Genevieve reportedly helped Serena Williams to plan the Duchess' New York baby shower.

Heather Dorak

Meghan was once spotted collecting Pilates instructor Heather from an airport in Canada, when her and Harry spent a few months there after stepping down from their senior royal roles. Heather and Meghan have been close for over ten years, ever since the latter started training in Heather's Platinum Pilates studio.

For her birthday back in 2016, Heather gave Meghan a shout out alongside posting a fun picture of the pair on holiday.

Who are Kate Middleton's best friends?

Emilia Jardine-Paterson

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Emilia Jardine-Paterson pictured on the day of Prince George’s christeningMax Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

Emilia met the Princess of Wales while studying at Marlborough College and the pair have remained close ever since, with her now one of Prince George's seven godparents. It's thought that she even introduced the royals to one another (having met William through mutual friends) and that when Kate and William had a brief split in 2007, Emilia accompanied her friend on a trip to Ibiza to recover from the heartbreak – the sign of a true pal. She owns an interior design company and is rumoured to have assisted Kate with re-vamping Kensington Palace. The dream job, surely?

Oliver Baker

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Kate Middleton and Oliver Baker seen at The Cheltenham Festival all the way back in 2007Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

The Prince and Princess of Wales met Oliver when they studied at St. Andrew's University in Scotland and are thought to have house-shared with him during their final two years there. Oliver, who played rugby with William and who is one of Prince George's godparents, now reportedly works in banking and is super tight-lipped about his royal connections. His wife, Mel, is also a great long-term friend of Kate's.

Pippa Middleton

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Who better to have as a bestie than your sister? It's a known fact that Kate Middleton and her sister, Pippa, who is married to Spencer Matthews' brother, James, are closer than close, with the Princess regularly talking about how important her family are to her.

When Kate married Prince William, it was Pippa who served as maid of honour, another obvious sign of the special bond shared between the two Middleton sisters.

Lady Laura Meade

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Lady Laura Meade and Kate Middleton pictured attending a church service together in January 2020Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

Given that she's the daughter of the Earl of Romney, Laura is more that adept at rubbing shoulders with the upper echelons of society. She's the wife of one of Prince William's closest friends (James Meade, who co-made the best man's speech at Kate and William's wedding in 2011... hey, we did say the royals' inner circle was small) and is Prince Louis' godmother.

Who are Prince Harry's best friends?

Charlie van Straubenzee

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Charlie van Straubenzee and Prince Harry at the Rugby World Cup in 2015Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

Prince Harry's best friend, Charlie van Straubenzee, is one of Archie's godparents – fair enough really, given that he's a part of a family who've long been close to the royals (he and his brother Thomas, who is Princess Charlotte's godfather, attended Ludgrove School with Harry and William). Prince Harry served as best man at Charlie's wedding to Daisy Jenks in August 2018, just a couple of months after Harry and Meghan's own wedding.

Tom 'Skippy' Inskip

windsor, united kingdom   may 19 embargoed for publication in uk newspapers until 24 hours after create date and time tom inskip and lara inskip attend the wedding of prince harry to ms meghan markle at st george's chapel, windsor castle on may 19, 2018 in windsor, england prince henry charles albert david of wales marries ms meghan markle in a service at st george's chapel inside the grounds of windsor castle among the guests were 2200 members of the public, the royal family and ms markle's mother doria ragland photo by max mumbyindigogetty images
Thomas ’Skippy’ Inskip and wife Lara at Meghan and Harry’s wedding.Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

A pal of Harry's since childhood (they both attended Eton) and his former "wingman", Skippy is well connected – his father, Owen Inskip, is good a friend of King Charles and David Cameron. Skippy was also in the hotel room in Las Vegas when those strip poker pictures were leaked in 2012.

In the past, there were reports that Skippy and Harry (who was an usher at Skippy's wedding to Lara Hughes-Young) fell out for a period of time, but that they reconciled over the loss of Lara's mother, which prompted her to raise money for the royal-endorsed mental health charity, Heads Together.

Who are Prince William's best friends?

James Meade

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The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge with James Meade at Royal Ascot in 2016Chris Jackson - Getty Images

As mentioned earlier, both James (who is the son of an Olympian) and his wife Laura are close friends with William and Kate – with James delivering a speech at their royal wedding. William had the honour of being an usher on James' big day too, which makes sense given that the pair have been thick as thieves since their Eton College days. James is Princess Charlotte's godfather.

Thomas van Straubenzee

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The Duke of Cambridge with Thomas van Straubenzee after a polo match in 2014.Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

Thomas shares the honour of being Princess Charlotte's godfather too, after first meeting William at Ludgrove prep school (you may have spotted that his brother Charlie is close friends with Harry). Along with James Meade, Thomas was an usher at the royal wedding in 2011 and Prince William held the same role at Thomas' 2013 nuptials. He's been there for all the big milestones in William's life.

Guy Pelly

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Guy Pelly (centre) attending Meghan and Harry’s wedding in 2018, with wife Lizzy (left) and fellow friend of the royals, James Meade (right)Chris Jackson - Getty Images

Nightclub owner Guy (who previously ran London's Mahiki) was named as one of Prince Louis' godparents and has known both the princes since childhood; his mother, Lady Carolyn Herbert, was friends with Princess Diana. His reputation for fun is well-known and it's thought that he was responsible for organising Prince William's stag do (although reports say this was actually a pretty tame trip to Devon in the end). He's married to Lizzy Wilson, whose family own the Holiday Inn chain.

The Van Cutsems

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Prince William and Hugh Van Cutsem attending the wedding of Nicholas Van Cutsem and Alice Hadden-Paton in 2009Indigo - Getty Images

The Van Cutsem family go way back with the royals – the two households became entwined after Hugh Van Cutsem Snr became close friends with Charles at Cambridge. Hugh's four sons (Hugh Jr, Nicholas, Edward and William) have been a staple feature in the princes' inner circle ever since – Hugh Van Cutsem Jr is the father of Grace Van Cutsem (who you may know better as the Grumpy Bridesmaid from the royal wedding). William Van Cutsem (who is closest in age to Prince William) was named as one of Prince George's godfathers in 2013, with Nicholas receiving the same honour at Prince Louis' christening a few years later. Edward, the eldest of the four brothers, is Charles' godson.

Who were The Queen's best friends?

Lady Celia Vestry

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Lady Celia Vestey pictured at Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s wedding.Max Mumby/Indigo - Getty Images

The wife of Lord Samuel Vestey (who held the very fancy title 'Master of the Horse to the Royal Household') was long counted as a great friend of the late Queen Elizabeth II. Like her husband (and Her Majesty), Celia was a big fan of horses and was one of Prince Harry's godparents. Celia's eldest son, William, was a Page of Honour to the Queen during his teenage years too.

Sadly, Celia died in November 2020.

Penelope Knatchbull

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The Queen and Penny Knatchull at the Royal Windsor Horse Show 2018.Mark Cuthbert - Getty Images

More commonly referred to as Penny (or for official purposes the Countess Mountbatten of Burma), she too shares a keen interest in horses – and chariot racing, a sport loved by the late Prince Philip.

If the name Mountbatten sounds familiar, it's because Prince Philip's surname is Mountbatten (and other royals, including Archie, use the surname Mountbatten-Windsor) and Penny was once married to the 3rd Earl Mountbatten of Burma (a close friend of King Charles). These days, she heads up a charity and prior to their deaths, was spotted with the Queen and Prince Philip on numerous dates, including church services and sporting events.

Of course, if you watch The Crown there's a suggested other reason as to why the royal couple kept Penny in such close proximity... but really, we'll likely never know the truth in regards to her relationship/friendship with Philip.

Lady Susan Hussey

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When Prince Philip passed away during the height of the pandemic, the late Queen Elizabeth II was seen travelling to his funeral with her right-hand woman, Lady Susan Hussey, by her side. In more recent years, Lady Hussey made the press after being accused of making racially insensitive comments, and stepped down from her role in the Palace thereafter.

A statement was then shared by the Palace, without naming Lady Hussey, saying: "The individual concerned would like to express her profound apologies for the hurt caused and has stepped aside from her honorary role with immediate effect. All members of the household are being reminded of the diversity and inclusivity policies which they are required to uphold at all times."

Prince Harry later publicly defended Lady Hussey, saying both her and Meghan "love her" and adding that "she never meant any harm at all... But the response from the British press, and from people online because of the stories that they wrote was horrendous."

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