'Badass' mother' gives birth alone in hotel room with only the help of YouTube tutorials'
A "badass" mother has claimed she gave birth alone in an Istanbul hotel room with only the help of YouTube tutorials.
Tia Freeman did not find out she was pregnant until her third trimester because she was on a birth control pill that stopped her periods, according to an account of the story she posted to her Twitter.
When she found out she was with child, she was "in denial" and didn't tell anybody, she wrote.
Ms Freeman said she did not cancel her holiday to see a friend, Jakob Johnson, in Germany because she "was not about to waste international flight money" and the baby was not due yet.
But on her flight from the US to Istanbul she started feeling ill. "I don’t know if it was the salmon, the flight, or it was just my time but out of nowhere I start cramping up," she wrote.
She thought it was food poisoning and decided to try and sleep it off.
So anyway I make it until we land but when I wake up the cramps have gotten worse and I’m like okay I just want to make it to my hotel. Its my layover and I’m only here (Istanbul, Turkey) for 17hrs. But getting through customs took FOREVVVVVVVERRRRR pic.twitter.com/VUFDhyrCR1
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
"When I wake up the cramps have gotten worse," she wrote. "And I’m like okay I just want to make it to my hotel. Its my layover and I’m only here (Istanbul, Turkey) for 17hrs."
Going through customs at Istanbul, she said she felt so ill that she googled her symptoms and realised she was in labour. She told herself: "You need to get it together and make it to your hotel."
By that point, she wrote: "There is no way in the world I’m not in labour because I can barely stand up at this point.
"So I’m in a foreign country, where no one speaks English, I don’t know this country’s emergency number, and I have no clue what to do."
I make it to my hotel & now I’m sure I’m in labor. There is no way in the world I’m not in labor because I can barely standup at this point. So I’m in a foreign country, where no one speaks english, I don’t know this country’s emergency number, & I have no clue what to do. pic.twitter.com/sk6k10zdu5
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
She said she then had a brainwave and "In true millennial form I decided to YouTube it."
"I spring into action. Filling up the tub with warm water #WaterBirth, grabbing a towel to bite down on, grabbing another towel to wrap him/her up with whenever it pops out," she writes.
So in true millennial form I decided to @Youtube it 😂😂. If no one else had my back the internet would! So here my ass is in my hotel room all by my lonesome learning how to deliver my own baby pic.twitter.com/v13ZhF6O8h
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
She safely delivered the baby after just a few pushes and sterilised a pair of shoelaces to cut the umbilical cord.
So the internet said I shouldn’t start pushing until my contractions where 2mins apart. Bc you don’t want to exhaust yourself too early and then not have any energy when the kids ready to come, you know? And I’m like okay bitch you’ve got a timer on your phone. You can do this! pic.twitter.com/QSi7iJ4vAx
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
My contractions were already at a minute a part lol I was late as hell. I BARELY made it to my room. 😂😂😂 so I throw the towel in my mouth and start pushing. And I have NEVVVVEEERRRR felt any pain like this in my life. I felt like I was being split open. WHERE WAS MY EPIDURAL?! pic.twitter.com/HGlootcNHu
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
Luckily it happened pretty quickly. I only had to push about 5-6x before a baby popped out. Lol now let me tell you babies are buoyant. That little joker said bloop and floated right on up to the top of the water 😂😂 pic.twitter.com/IuqwKXFb2L
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
She observes: "It’s weird how focused a person becomes when they’re adrenaline starts going. Because at no point ever did I freak out. Like I just did what I had to do."
Then she returned to Istanbul airport the next day because she had already paid for the cab and said: "I didn’t know what I would need to leave the country with a newborn baby and I thought no better place to ask than the airport."
After she explained that she was not a human trafficker, they all arranged for her to get a birth certificate and passport from the US Embassy.
She told her friend Mr Johnson that she was slightly delayed and they then met up a few days later as he was flying back to the US through Turkey.
The short version:
My friend Tia was on the way to Germany to visit me.
During her Layover in Istanbul she GAVE BIRTH to a HEALTHY BABY BOY
In a Hotel Room
BY HERSELF
Tied and cut the Umbilical Chord
BY HERSELF
AND WENT TO THE AIRPORT THE NEXT DAY LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND pic.twitter.com/iz6976bjsd— Jakob Johnson (@JohnsonJakob) April 25, 2018
He was surprised to find her with a healthy baby boy, who she named Xavier Ata because Ata is a Turkish name.
After her tale was widely shared online, one person wrote: "Congrats on your beautiful little man and for handling that like a BOSS!"
Another impressed reader noted that she was "a badass, holy ****."