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Love Island contestant Joe Garratt insists he didn’t ‘manipulate or abuse’ Lucie Donlan
Former Love Island contestant Joe Garratt has refuted claims he manipulated or abused fellow islander Lucie Donlan on the ITV show.Following his departure from the fifth series of the programme on Tuesday evening, the sandwich maker blamed the “heightened pressure” in the villa for his behaviour towards Donlan.In recent weeks, Garratt’s demeanour towards the model had Twitter users accusing him of gaslighting – a term used to describe a form of emotional abuse where one person gradually manipulates another in order to gain control.Following the backlash, the 22-year-old told The Sun: “I didn’t manipulate or abuse her.“I am gutted that it has been perceived in that way because it wasn’t like that at all.”The former islander continued, stating that he always had Donlan’s “best interests at heart” and thought he behaved accordingly with his on-screen partner.Garratt also insisted that he will not be apologising for his behavior in the villa, stating that he believes he didn’t do anything wrong.“I am not going to say sorry,” he told the publication.“I may have worded things wrong and the cameras are on you 24/7. I may have slipped up a bit but I am only human.”The former contestant also said that the “heightened pressure” in the villa makes contestants behave differently to how they would normally in public.Following Garratt’s exit from the show, his friends and family defended the former contestant’s behaviour on social media after domestic abuse charity Women’s Aid weighed in on the criticism of his behaviour, explaining that “controlling behaviour is never acceptable”.In a post shared on Garratt’s Instagram account, his supporters stated that they believed he had been shown on the programme to fit “a certain narrative”.The post read: “Speaking on behalf of Joe’s best friends, we acknowledge Joe will come out to some warranted criticism.“However, we deem the majority of it to be unfair and non-representative of Joe’s true character.“The producers have the ability to show someone in a particular light, choosing just 45 mins of footage from 24 hours to tell a certain narrative.”> View this post on Instagram> > After that nailbiting vote, Joe has unfortunately left the Love Island villa♥️🏝We want to thank all of Joe’s followers for their endless support. We also want to wish the remaining islanders the best of luck in the rest of the programme, especially @lucierosedonlan who Joe genuinely cares for and enjoyed his time with💚🏄♀️ Speaking on behalf of Joe’s best friends, we acknowledge Joe will come out to some warranted criticism. However, we deem the majority of it to be unfair and non representative of Joe’s true character. The producers have the ability to show someone in a particular light, choosing just 45 mins of footage from 24 hours to tell a certain narrative. Joe will know he is coming home to the best family and group of friends about. We are all buzzing to see our boy. But from thesandwichman.... that’s a wrap ♥️🏝🌯> > A post shared by Joe Garratt (@josephgarratt) on Jun 18, 2019 at 2:00pm PDTThe comments follow criticism of Garratt’s behaviour towards fellow contestant Donlan after he questioned her friendship with boxer Tommy Fury during Sunday night’s episode, calling it “strange” and “disrespectful”, adding: “I think it’s time for you to get close with the girls”.Hours after the ITV2 reality show aired, 302 viewers complained to broadcasting watchdogs Ofcom.Responding to the backlash of Garratt’s behaviour, a spokesperson for Love Island said: “We take the emotional well-being of all the Islanders extremely seriously.“We have dedicated welfare producers and psychological support on hand at all times who monitor and regularly speak to all of the Islanders in private and off camera, especially if someone appears to be upset. All the Islanders are therefore fully supported by the professionals on site and by their friends in the villa.”The spokesperson stated that contestants are always able to reach out and talk to someone if they feel the need.“We will of course continue to monitor all of our Islanders in line with our robust protocols. Love Island holds a mirror up to relationships and all the different dynamics that go with them,” they added.If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse in a relationship, call the Freephone 24/7 National Domestic Violence Helpline, run by Women’s Aid in partnership with Refuge, on 0808 2000 247 or visit www.womensaid.org.uk.
In a country sent mad by Brexit, conventional wisdom now appears to be that “punching above your weight” is somehow a wise and noble thing to do. Britain, we have been led to believe, “punches above its weight” in all sorts of things.
Back in the real world, if you punch above your weight you get knocked out. And, over in the Love Island villa, in the unforgiving glare of the fire pit, Tommy Fury unified the belts in the heavyweight division with a single devastating blow.
Maura fought a good fight but she went in too hard, too fast. Fury drew the fire in the early rounds and waited for his moment. All it took was a moment of exposure – not usually a crime in Love Island – and wallop!
It’s a funny old game, isn’t it? This manufacturing of human emotion just for a brief taste of the big time, doing paid-for endorsements on Instagram. For what, exactly, are all these young people gleefully regressing to the kind of dating game once practised in the primary school playground?
This latest episode rolled straight into Love Island Aftersun (more like a kind of aftercare for Love Island alumni) where the contestants – having sacrificed their public dignity on an altar to absolutely nothing – appear to lack any sustainable role than to provide analysis for future hopefuls running the same foolish errand they did.
Why is Lucie weeping into her pashmina? Why is Joe having what looks like to be a nervous breakdown over the subject of a marshmallow that was thrown underarm across a kitchen by his “girlfriend of nine days”? The prize for which they compete is absolutely no more than to be back again next year, doing toe curling video segments, making pulled pork sandwiches with the mothers of that years competitors.
All of which is to say, it is all very, very, very boring indeed.