Diana Diaries: Remembering Princess Diana's Relationship with William and Harry
A look back at Princess Diana’s approach to motherhood
In November 1995, less than two years before her tragic death, Diana sat down with BBC1 Panorama for an unprecedented interview giving her side of the story about her divorce from Prince Charles following his admitted affair with now-wife, Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall. During the talk, host Martin Bashir asked how she explained the separation to her two sons, Prince William and Prince Harry.
"I went to the school and put it to William, particularly, that if you find someone you love in life you must hang onto it and look after it," Diana said. "And if you were lucky enough to find someone who loved you, then you must protect it."
Tim Graham/Getty Princess Diana and Prince William
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Prince William was just 10 years old when his parents separated, finalizing their divorce four years later — and he had questions for his mother about the split.
"William asked me what had been going on, and could I answer his questions, which I did," Diana explained in the interview. "He said, 'Was that the reason why our marriage had broken up?' And I said, 'Well, there were three of us in this marriage, and the pressures of the media was another factor, so the two together were very difficult.' But although I still loved Papa, I couldn't live under the same roof as him, and likewise with him."
PA Images via Getty Images Princess Diana, Prince Harry, Prince Charles and Prince William
When asked how William took the answer, Diana replied, "He's a child that's a deep thinker, and we don't know for a few years how it's gone it. But I put it gently, without resentment or anger."
Tim Graham/Getty Princess Diana, Prince William and Prince Harry
Prince William married Kate in April 2011, proposing with the iconic sapphire and diamond engagement ring that once belonged to Diana. The couple have three children: Prince George, 7, Princess Charlotte, 5, and Prince Louis, 2.
Samir Hussein/WireImage Prince Louis, Prince William, Kate Middleton, Prince George and Princess Charlotte
With William, then 13, second in line to the British throne, Bashir asked Diana during the famous interview if she believed her son should succeed Queen Elizabeth as monarch.
"Do you think it would make more sense in the light of the marital difficulties that you and the Prince of Wales have had if the position of monarch passed directly to your son Prince William?" he asked.
Diana replied, "Well, then you have to see that William's very young at the moment, so do you want a burden like that to be put on his shoulders at such an age? So I can't answer that question."
Tim Graham/Getty Prince William and Princess Diana
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Bashir rephrased: "Would it be your wish that when Prince William comes of age that he were to succeed the Queen rather than the current Prince of Wales?"
"My wish is that my husband finds peace of mind, and from that follows others things, yes," Princess Diana said.