#WhyIDidntReport: sexual assault victims react to Trump's attack on Ford
In a scene that felt particularly Gileadean, Trump was interviewed by his late-night confidant and biggest cheerleader Sean Hannity in front of a braying audience of adoring supporters on Fox News on Thursday night.
Hannity began the interview, in places inaudible because of how loud the crowd was cheering, by joshing “wave to the fake news media” and pointing at the press pool. He then asked Trump about Brett Kavanaugh’s hearings and the sexual assault allegations made against him.
In front of his mob, Trump cast aspersions on Christine Blasey Ford, the woman who has accused the supreme court nominee of holding her down, forcing himself on to her and covering her mouth to stop her screaming.
“He’s an outstanding person, and frankly, Sean, to see what’s going is very, very sad. You say, why didn’t somebody call the FBI 36 years ago? You could also say, when did this all happen? What’s going on? To take a man like this and besmirch [his name],” he said in an attack on Ford’s claims, before adding: “Now, with that being said, let her have her say and let’s see how it all works out.”
Trump tweeted similar sentiments on the same day, sparking people to share their stories of why they didn’t report sexual crimes against them, under the hashtag #WhyIDidntReport. At the time of writing, so many people had posted stories that the hashtag was number one in the US.
The stories shared speak of powerlessness, a fear of not being believed, inexcusable reactions from people who were told, a failure of law enforcement to investigate crimes, as well as crippling psychological conditions that arose following assault.
#WhyIDidntReport he told me no one would ever believe me, he did nothing wrong. He convinced me for years that everyone knew I was a liar and anything I said would go nowhere. I did finally go to the police. They acknowledged what he was doing was wrong and they did nothing.
— Michelle Nation (@michellenation) September 21, 2018
I did report. I went to the hospital and the SVU in Brooklyn and told them what happened to me.
They told me what I described was a rape. I was starting law school in 3 weeks so I decided not to press charges. Biggest mistake of my life. #WhyIDidntReport— Zerlina Maxwell (@ZerlinaMaxwell) September 21, 2018
Because I was just a beer waitress in a conservative small town in West Texas and he was a rich white frat boy. #WhyIDidntReport
— Laurie Jones Neighbors (@ljneighbors) September 21, 2018
He was the nephew of my father’s girlfriend at the time & was older & stronger than me. It started when I was 7 & I thought he’d hurt me more & that nobody would believe me. It took 4 years to break the silence. He was abusing other kids too, I later found out. #WhyIDidntReport
— deray (@deray) September 21, 2018
I was 17. Raped by a friend. I was confused. In denial. Afraid. His parents were richer & better connected than my parents. He was a "good" student. Ppl liked him. The only friend I told--responded w: "He wld never do that." I didn't think anyone would help me. #WhyIDidntReport https://t.co/YbCuIMg07M
— Abigail Hauslohner (@ahauslohner) September 21, 2018
it took years to piece together what happened. i didn't want to relive it--i was just trying to graduate without breaking down. later i just didn't think anyone would believe me. when i finally told a therapist he asked me why i thought my experience was a rape. #WhyIDidntReport
— Gita Jackson: bespoke blood prison (@xoxogossipgita) September 21, 2018
Sexual crime statistics, particularly of unreported crimes, are by nature difficult to collect. However, the Department of Justice, based on data from its 2015 National Crime Victimization Survey, estimates that only 310 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to police.
The top reason given for not reporting a sexual crime was the fear of retaliation. The president casting aspersions on a woman’s sexual assault claim in front of a roaring horde on national television is unlikely to change that.
• In the US, the national sexual assault hotline is 1-800-656-HOPE and the domestic violence hotline is 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). In the UK, Samaritans can be contacted on 116 123 and the domestic violence helpline is 0808 2000 247. In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline is on 13 11 14 and the national family violence counselling service is on 1800 737 732. Other international helplines can be found at www.befrienders.org